You’ve got to go there to come back

I have just returned from a brief jaunt back to England, my first for a long time. My job being what it is, I am able to work from home most of the time, which has been fantastic. Setting up home in a new country is hard enough without the strain of having to leave it all behind every week to return to the rat-race.  It can be quite tough though, working remotely. After a while you do start to feel a bit forgotten and, although there are always conference calls, email, MSN and Skype, there’s not really any substitute for a 1-to-1 face-to-face meeting.

So I actually don’t mind spending odd days back in the office. It serves several purposes.

It keeps my brain active. Being one of the more senior guys there, I am generally a magnet for enyone with tricky questions. This does me good as you can very easily “zone-out” when working from home, especially when home is a quiet corner of rural france and its sunshine and blue-skies outside!

It reminds people who I am. In a large organisation it can very easily become a case of out-of-sight-out-of-mind. And you can find people unconciously excluding you from conversations or going elsewhere for information just because they haven’t seen you in the office for a while. It’s nothing personal, you just start to “fade-out” of their conciousness after a while.

It’s a change of scenery. My desk faces the corner of the wall, so, like a naughty schoolboy, I can see very little of what is going on around me. The lazy spider that lived near the cieling above me seems to have slipped down and is now hanging on his web, looking rather dead. So I don’t even have him for company. Going back to the office gives me a new view of the world, with lots lots of faces around, none of which are generally dead.

I get to earn loyalty points at the hotel. One of the few perks of the job – staying in lots of hotels means one soon collects a stack of hotel loyalty points. I shall soon enjoy spending my collection on a bunch of nice stuff :)

I can reconnect with the organisation. Working at home it’s easy to forget that you are part of a wider organisation. Just visiting HQ for a day reminds me that there is more out there.

But the best thing for me about going away is that I get to come home. As I drive into Foussais Payre and see all the sights that have so quickly become my signals of home, I can feel myself relax and all the stresses of trains, planes and automobiles are left behind on the road.

It’s worth going away just to get that feeling.

Barry Sheen eat your heart out!

My journeys to and from work generally involve me just walking downstairs in my dressing gown, but this week I actually had to go out and do some proper work for a change nby visiting a customer on-site. Thankfully it was not in the UK this time, but in Bucharest, Romania. So, clearly there not being any direct flights from my neck of the woods, I had to get myself to Paris. Now, this is no mean feat – it is actually easier and quicker for me to get to London than Paris, but that’s by the by.

I got everything organised, booked my flight, hotel, train & parking (I wasn’t getting caught out again by having to find €21 in coins to feed into the parking machine at Niort station!). I won’t bore you with the details (but DARN these rural french folks) but I ended up just missing the train from Niort to Paris. “When is the next train?” I pant to the woman at the station, having tried to sprint along the platform with my rather-too-heavy-for hand-luggage. “15:24 monsieur.” That sounded bad to me… “Il arrive à Paris à quelle heure?” “17:40″…..Noooooooooooooooooooo!!!! That would leave me less than an hour to get from Paris Montparnasse to Charles de Gaul airport. Quite simply not enough time, given that it was rush hour.

So I faced the prospect of having to cancel my flight, or at least change it until the next day, which would mean finding somewhere to stay overnight….all so much hassle. But thankfully, my colleague Sam saved the day by telling me about Royal Bikes. They are a motorcycle taxi firm, and they were amazing!

Me...sorry, Barry Sheen

Now, I am the sort of old-school guy who always says that motorbikes are death-traps, an accident waiting to happen etc. etc., but I have to say…. WOW! It was the first time I had ever been on a motorbike and after the first 10 minutes of sheer panic as I watched us squeeze in between the cars vans and lorries with inches to spare, I actually really enjoyed it. And talk about exhillarating! Big Thunder Mountain has nothing on this – racing round the paris perepherique at rush hour, swerving in and out of the traffic….It was one hell of a journey.

And incredibly he got me there on time – 18:20 I arrived at the air France desk, where a nice young lady took me to the front of the queue so I could race off to catch the flight to Bucharest.

I don’t think I’ll be swapping my Chippie for a motorbike just yet, but I might be daring and open the windows when I’m going fast, just to remember a taste of that crazy journey.

Welcome

La famille Barley

This is us, the Barley family.

For years we have harboured a dream to move from our home on the east coast of England to a new life in France. In December 2007 we made that dream a reality.

This blog will be a collection of our thoughts, experiences and other random items that we hope you will find mildly interesting.

But first, some introductions…

I’m Richard, 36 and I’m a consultant for an IT company. I’m married to Lisa (age undisclosed!), who, up until the move, was a teaching assistant at the local school. We have 3 children: Rosie (12), Molly (10) and Joe (8). And together we are finding our way through the maze of new experiences that make up the process of settling in a new country